Remember when you were with your partner for eight years and they adored you? They loved to talk to you every morning, send you sweet texts, call you on the way home from work but now they don’t.

Sex was on their mind, constantly. Okay that’s a lie. Mostly yours. Why, because you’re amazing!!

Bike rides, house help, drinks, live music, dinners…good conversation, mindfulness, care, all are gone.

Then things changed drastically. They have no time for you. Not even a text or a phone call. You live three blocks away and he couldn’t be bothered. He’s too busy for YOU. He’s gotten all he wants and now you’re difficult. Too demanding.  Nothing.

It comes as a shock to be nothing after so many years.

Sorry folks but the breakup blog continues so settle in …it may be a few months for this gal to adjust to singledom.

But..in the end.. I am the lucky one. Free.
He wasn’t who I thought he was.
Sadly, it took me almost a decade to realize that.

No one reads this anyways…
If you do… I feel you slapping me.
I am awake and up.
No really.

I didn’t really know him.