Strangely enough after almost a decade of being with a married man. I have no regrets. Some might say that’s bad. But I don’t think it is. We are no longer a couple so I feel fine to discuss it.

The relationship was good and bad but mostly good. That sounds so juvenile typed out in clear view. Regrets about being with a married man. No way! Regrets of not doing more for sure.

Road trips
Camping
Picnics
BBQs
Outside concerts
Rowing or canoeing
Skiing even though I am black and we don’t do that. It’s a very expensive sport!
Dancing
On an airplane
In a cabin
Swimming in the ocean
And finally a pie eating contest.

Just kidding. My lover was/is sporty. Fit, courageous but…..not up for a few of the items above.

More deets to come. I am sure someone is out there who was or is or knows someone in similar situation.